Hey everyone, it’s Ron here, and I hope you’re ready for some unfiltered fun! Today, I’m feeling a little more playful than usual, probably because I’m tired and when I’m tired, I get goofy. You know those late-night rides back from events? Yeah, just imagine me after midnight, completely sillified (not a real word, but it should be), cracking jokes and giving everyone absurd nicknames. It’s a good time, let me tell you!
Speaking of good times, I’m excited to be here with Hope, discussing what men truly need. Now, don’t get me wrong, I know there’s a plethora of articles and discussions out there that may cover the topic of men’s needs in relationships, but there’s something about sharing this with my wife on our own platform that makes it feel far more real and relatable.
So, let’s just dive right in. If I had to pinpoint my number one need, it would be to feel valued. It’s simple, really. Just knowing that I am Hope’s priority in our marriage makes a world of difference for me. I don’t want to feel like I’m coming in second. When that happens, I end up pouting, and let me tell you, I’m a champion at silent sulking. Part of it is personality, I suppose. It just feels better to come home to a sense of peace rather than chaos. This place shouldn’t feel like a battlefield; it should feel like a home.
Let’s chat about another big one: respect. It’s crucial, and I’d dare say, many men feel this way. When you work hard in your job or your life, it’s important to feel appreciated for your efforts. There’s a lot of behind-the-scenes work that often goes unnoticed, and a simple thank you can go such a long way.
And then, there’s the classic need—food. But let’s be clear, not just any food; I mean, hearty meals that show some love. After a long day, a delicious dinner makes me feel appreciated.
Quality time? Yes, please! I’m learning that for me, it’s not about lavish dates or constant activity; it’s just being together. You might remember the other night when I just wanted to go for a drive in our convertible, even in the rain. It was about being in the moment with Hope, no grand destination needed.
Now, being in this fresh, remodeled Sanctuary in Greenville, South Carolina, makes the conversation feel even more special. It’s a product of teamwork, hard work, and a reflection of what we can achieve together.
As we keep talking, we inevitably dance around the topic of intimacy—let’s just call it what it is. It’s important in a marriage, and I mean, who doesn’t enjoy that connection? It’s not just about the act itself but the emotional bond it cultivates.
Being married for over 30 years, we’ve navigated some ups and downs, but what remains constant is the maturity that comes from constantly working to understand each other’s needs. I’ve learned a lot about approaching these conversations with sensitivity and a willingness to listen—something I could always do more of!
If I could encourage those of you reading to take something from this conversation, it would be to open those lines of communication with your spouse. Ask each other, “What do you need from me?” You may be surprised by the answers, and it may just strengthen your bond.
Remember, folks, every relationship is a work in progress. Give yourselves grace as you figure it out together. Thanks for hanging with me today; I had a blast sharing this with you! Until next time, keep it real and keep the conversations flowing.